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Career Counselling Maitland
One recently heard and read some interesting articles on the length of time it takes for various members of the Australian workforce to attain a new position. The broadcasts and articles stated that Read More
How many times have you uttered these words?
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If you could be or do anything in this life what would you do or be. As children we have so many dreams about what we will do, be and become when we grow up but somewhere between childhood and adulthood our dreams become squashed, buried deep, hidden away or totally pulled apart and reworked because they do not fit our loved ones or societies view of who we should be.
So my question to you is:-
“What dreams have you buried or given up on that would bring you fulfillment, happiness and joy”?
Do not place any limitations on yourself such as if I only had a million dollars in the bank and did not have to worry about bills, the mortgage, school fees etc I would be or do xxxxxxxx.
Find a way of incorporating your dreams into your life it maybe that you start small for example you may have always wanted to start your own small business; start doing some research, enrol in a small business course, talk to people who work in the industry and have already set up their own small businesses.
By focusing on what you want (big picture) and taking positive small steps to incorporate aspects of the big picture into your life you will eventually see the realisation of your dreams.
Find the peace, contentment, fulfilment, happiness and joy that you have been searching for. It is YOUR LIFE after all – You deserve to be HAPPY, content and fulfilled. So take a risk, follow your dreams and be the best person you can be. Life is too short for mediocrity.
One of the major milestones of life is that of Child to Adult and all that brings along with it including entering the workforce.
Blu Ripples question to you is –
Are you ready for this?
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In Blu Ripples previous Blog, Making the Dream Happen (Part 2), one encouraged you to define your rough idea into a SMART Goal both in the big picture and the first small step capacity.
Assuming you have undertaken the first step it is now the appropriate time to determine your path. Using the example outlined in Part 2, Oncologist, one perceives that you believe that there is only one way to achieve this outcome. Well I am here to tell you there is always more than one way it depends on how hard we look and investigate our options.
Did one get your attention? Yes there is always another way to achieve your dreams!
The first step in becoming an Oncologist is to attain your Bachelor of Medicine and then specialise – correct? Well not necessarily!
What if you don’t get into the Bachelor of Medicine – then what? What other options are open to you? Read More
Before we start can you please go grab a piece of A4 paper or writing pad, a pen and highlighter.
Now draw a line down the middle of the page and write on the top left hand side “Enjoyment” and on the right hand side “Dislike”.
Moving forward, I want you think about every hobby that you have ever tried, had an interest in or tried and disliked since childhood (let’s start from 6 years of age inclusive) and write the corresponding hobby in the Enjoyment or Dislike column. It is important that you do not stop, think and analyse every entry just let it flow.
Upon undertaking this exercise, you may find you repeat yourself a few times – this is OK don’t pay too much attention to this yet.
So now you have completed both the Enjoyment and Dislike columns I want you to leave the list alone and go and have a 10-15 minute coffee break and come back to it.
Welcome back, now I want you to take 10 minutes or so to review and analyse the lists.
- What are the common themes that seem to be repeating themselves?
- Can you group the common themes together for example Sports, Animals, Collections, Home-making, Art etc.
You may wish to use your highlighter to highlight the areas that keep repeating themselves.
So what did you find? What are your top 3 groups?
Your top 3 key groups (both Enjoyment and Dislike) are strong indicators of your personal preference.
Finally, upon review and analysis of your top 3 key groups can you identify any key sub-themes for example. If you loved playing sports common themes may include: –
- Outdoor Activity
- Team Work
- Social Interaction
- Commitment & Discipline
- Communication Skills
So how does this apply to my Career? Think about it – do you really want to sit in an office all day by yourself with minimal contact with clients or colleagues or would you prefer a job that saw you out and about for example a sales representative, outdoor motivational trainer, personal trainer, trades professional etc.
Finally, remember to analyse your disinterest side also as the common themes here will give you a clear picture of what you do not like and subsequently what to stay away from. This is particularly helpful if you are going to review job advertisements, job guides and descriptions as it allows you to analyse what percentage of the role incorporates these areas of disinterest and allows you to question yourself for example can you really cope with this area as a part of the position or is this area a non-negotiable aspect for you? Only you can answer this. Remember to be truthful with yourself for you are only fooling yourself if you are not.
How many times have you found yourself uttering these words? Or perhaps you have found yourself counting the days to the end of the week or year.
These cognitions (thoughts) are indeed a major sign of job dissatisfaction. However, Blu Ripples main question to you is “Why are you dissatisfied in your work”?
Is it because you experiencing: – Read More